family or lover?

so what ur choice?
a. family
b. lover
c. both

Of coz dats a lot of u will choose c. both rite...but then is dat ur true feeling or u juz wanna to cover up ur feeling about which u fall more. Its up to urself but dont u thinks it is difficult when their lover and family had maka an option whether to choose which the person fall more. Its difficult rite? Sometimes people who can't face this kind of problem@pressure they take an easy way by hangging theirself or done a bad things which lead to a social problem rite? For me it is not the best way to overcome this kind of problem..because how hard is the problem it will be settled by conversation is it rite? So dats was my opinion how abut yours? People had their own opinion rite so lets take a minute to think about it? c ya...
p/s : sowi not a proper english